What To Talk About With Your Ex Boyfriend Over Text

What To Text Your Ex Boyfriend (And Make Him Want You Back)

Reaching Out

Hi,
I hope you’re doing well. I just wanted to touch base and see if you’d be interested in catching up sometime. I’m free tomorrow around 1pm if that works for you.
Let me know,

Best,
Your Ex

Setting Expectations

Hello,

Are you still seeing that other girl? I haven’t seen you around her much lately, which is strange because we used to be so close.
I hope you’re not doing anything behind my back, because we were really good together.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how our relationship could be improved.
What I think we need to do is set some clear expectations from each other.

For example, I think it would be a good idea if you stopped seeing that other girl and started spending more time with me.
I know that sounds like a lot to ask, but I think it would be worth it if we could recapture what we had before.
I hope you agree.

Take care.

Keeping It Light

Hey there,

We’ve been through a lot together and I think we could still be great friends IF we could just recapture that connection we once had.

Anyway, I just wanted to send you a quick text and see if you’re doing anything tomorrow night. I think we could use some closure on our relationship.

Hope to hear from you soon!

Take care,

You

Avoiding Conflict

Hello!

I hope you’re well. I wanted to reach out and talk to you about something that’s been on my mind.

I was wondering if we could talk about the way our relationship is going. I’m not sure if it’s because we’re both busy or what, but we haven’t been able to communicate properly lately.

I don’t want to resort to arguments or battles, so can we try and brainstorm some solutions to this? I’d really appreciate it if you could get back to me.

Take care!

Talk About the Present

Hey, my love!

It’s been a while since we last spoke. How are you doing? I hope you’re well. I’m doing well, thank you for asking. I’m enjoying the present moment. What about you?

We all have different interests and hobbies, and I think it’s really important to keep exploring those things. What’s your favorite thing to do? I like reading and hiking. What about you? I also enjoy cooking and playing the guitar. What about you?

Texting is a great way to stay connected, and I think it’s important to be able to talk about things without having to face each other in person. Do you have any stories or anecdotes about your favorite things?

I hope everything is going well, my love. I’ll talk to you soon!

Discuss the Future

Hey,

It’s been awhile since we’ve talked, and I wanted to see if you’re still interested in seeing each other as more than just friends? I think we could really have some fun together and I’m not just saying that because I’m trying to get back into your pants 😉 I think we could be great for each other.

Anyway, I wanted to know if you’d be willing to talk about the future? I know it’s a big decision and I don’t want to pressure you, but I just wanted to make sure we’re on the same page.

Let me know what you think and take care!

Conclusion: Respectful Communication

Hello (name),

It’s been a while since we talked, and I wanted to drop you a quick text to see how you’re doing. I hope things are going well.

I wanted to talk about something that’s been on my mind lately. I’m still really into you, and I think it’s important that we maintain a respectful relationship.

I know it can be tough when things are tough, but I think it would be a mistake to give up on our friendship. I’ll be here for you no matter what.

Take care.